The Viagra Chronicles

Stupid question, eh? Well of course it’s different. When my husband can’t keep himself hard long enough to satisfy me or to enjoy the sex himself it is not a very cool situation. Besides, once he experienced bad sex with a weak erection, he has the fear of experiencing it again. This is why me and my husband started with Viagra in the first place. I guess this is why most men with an ED problem (or couples) start using ED medications. But here I want to stop an separate the points of view: my husband’s and mine.

He, of course, feels more secure now. In the beginning he felt bad and old, and maybe not a man enough, but he got over it (especially after reading how many people are actually using the pill, and that’s only the official number). The effect then on our sex was amazing: not only Louis was sure of himself again, and we started to have sex more often like before, but also using Viagra actually made him more horny and refreshed about sex. Kind of like the effect of watching a good juicy porn I guess. It’s becoming a habit, and you know that once you take the pill you have great sex, so now every time he takes it he feels like he’s about to have great sex..and he does.

Well, almost. Things can go wrong with Viagra too. Not anything too drastic (Louis doesn’t use any other medications besides the blue pill), but sex is still not mechanical, there are still us people involved. I mean here mostly me. It’s like, there are times he takes the pill without checking with me first what’s on my mind. Maybe I prefer a quiet night? Maybe I feel like having sex a bit later over the day (you’re not supposed to take Viagra or any other ED pill more than once a day). I mean, the other night Louis just came to me, all horny and hot, just to find out I got my period that day (he’s too strict about those things, we don’t have sex when I bleed). Now he suffered and was disappointed, and I felt bad for the whole situation. But I hope this made it completely clear to him to ask me before he takes it. I was mad with him the morning after, I don’t want to feel guilty just because he’s being selfish!

And there’s the spontaneity factor. You take Viagra 30 minutes before sex, Cialis and Levitra 1 hour before. i think this is why we stick to Viagra, because one hour before for almost daily sex is almost impossible. Louis takes it on an empty stomach and it starts working after half an hour. We are still considering the daily Cialis, but until I check more details about it –  it seems a bit extreme to use a daily pill for an ED problem.

Anyways, good news: Louis’ restaurant received a very good critic recently, and more people are coming in. Louis feels very good now, but he has less time for me. Or for sex. And he’s more tired when he gets back home. But I guess those are the good troubles…

Love,

Ella