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Erectyle Disfunction – Naturopathic Treatment?

by admin on Oct.28, 2010, under My Viagra Experience


Not that I have anything against Viagra. On the contrary, after my husband and I realized Viagra was our only way to keep it up, I learned to love the little blue magic pill. But, I know that for some people Viagra is not the only solution, and for others (for example, those of you who take nitris), Viagra may not be even an option.

So, for those of you who can’t take Viagra, and for those who want to try something else for some time, I will now write about a few natural alternatives for Viagra (or Cialis, or Levitra). There are naturopathic ways to treat Erectyle Disfunction, and most of them work on enhancing the blood flow. Please always consult your doctor if you have any special medical issue.

Erectyle Disfunction – The Naturopathic Way

Food first. Check your diet, make sure you have a balanced diet and that you eat enough and not too much from each kind of food. Try to avoid sugar, dairy products, highly processed foods, fried foods, junk foods, alcohol, and caffeine. Even if it’s really hard to do, it is better to try this for 10 days, and see if the situation is better.
Some food supplements that are known to help against ED, are:

  • Asian ginseng (Panax ginseng), traditionally used to treat impotence
  • Damiana (Turnera diffusa), used to treat impotence and a variety of other sexual disorders; also acts as an aphrodisiac, a substance that increases sexual arousal
  • Epimedium, also known as Horny Goat’s Weed or Fairy Wings, is believed to be a natural aphrodisiac that acts chemically in a manner like that of the prescription drug sildenafil citrate (Viagara®)
  • Ginkgo (Ginkgo biloba), reputed to have the ability to increase the flow of blood through the arteries, the process by which an erection is produced
  • Muira puama (Ptychopetalum olacoides), recommended for increasing sexual desire and performance
  • Other supplements that may be helpful are vitamin C, vitamin E, selenium and zinc, inositol (tends to lower blood cholesterol levels), and bioflavonoids (compounds with anti-inflammatory and antioxidant properties).

    Always try to make your body happy and exercise. Run on the beach, take a yoga class, go to the gym. Whatever you do,listen to your body. It tells you when it had enough.

    Good luck, and happy love.
    Ella.

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Viagra – the movie?

by admin on Aug.16, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

Finally, the moment I’ve been waiting for. A movie about Viagra is out there, and the world will be watching. I’m not sure but I guess me and Louis will go together. Maybe we’ll even laugh. What’s so funny about Viagra, anyways? I don’t know but the Hollywood people probably thought of something. From the movie trailer it ain’t all that bad..I read a review for the movie and it sounds even worse. But still, it’s a comedy, it’s Viagra, I’ll give it a try!

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The hardest Viagra side-effect

by admin on Jul.22, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

Louis got it bad the last couple of weeks. He keeps asking for sex. I mean, we’re not teenagers anymore (were we ever?), twice a day is too much for me. he wants more, I want less. I even told him the night before that he should stop taking Viagra, if he cannot handle the side effects.

‘What Side effects?’  he asked, still too horny to focus.

i wrote about this before, but never have I felt it so strong in me. i thing that little blue pill, that little devil blue pill, is getting in the way of our relationships. Louis is older than me, I should be the one with the higher libido. But somehow the take-the-pill-and-get-it-on atmosphere doesn’t work for me anymore.

i want to feel like our sex life is natural, not chemical. I want to live with a 40-something husband, not a horny teenager. I’m just too tired. And I’m also scared, I’m scared of discovering that in the last two years (or is it 3 by now?) our relationship became all about my man’s penis.

I’m frustrated, and scared, and I hate Viagra.

Love,

Ella

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Watch out, ED pills!

by admin on Jun.13, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

Jay Leno, and I don’t watch him regularly, but he had a joke about Viagra and Cialis in connection to memory loss. That’s no news, that a possible side effect (although a rare one) is amnesia. I remember two years ago, when Louis started to use the Viagra pill and we were both worried about side effects, we kept reading the small prints and gather any piece of information we could get about that little blue pill.

Back then we went to the doctor to get a prescription, so we kept asking the doctor for anything. and whatever he said made us worry. So many possible side effects this little pill had, and some of them sounded really bad. We even thought one evening to forget about it all, to keep our lives as we knew them. But really, how could we give up sex? How could we give up our relationship? We had no option, and full of fears my husband started to use the famous blue pill, and made me a Viagra wife.

After a week we were relieved – no side effects, and good healthy sex. After two years, we are no longer afraid of impotence pills. Even birth control pills have side effects. Even Paracetamol has side effects. They must mention those risks, otherwise they will get sued. It’s business, that’s all.

I’m feeling the urge to tell you all this now because last night, when I was watching that Jay Leno show with his Viagra joke,  my sister was next to me and started to say it is very scary. And then I’ve realized people might actually be fearing the pill without having the right perspective. They might give up sex, and their relationships, and their self esteem, simply because they never tried it. And that would be just too bad.

Love,

Ella.

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No Viagra today!

by admin on May.13, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

I know many men (and women, actually) are looking for some alternatives to Viagra. I know it because Louis and me are seeking for some decent way to keep it up without the pill. Not for every day, Louis is impotent and we come to peace with this fact. But sometimes, just sometimes, we want to be able to just have sex without the pill.

Lots of things we’ve tried, most of them helped in a way but never got us (or better, Louis) to the point where we could simply forget about that little blue wonder pill. Sport, yoga, meditating, even breathing deep and slow during sex – this helps. I must admit slow sex is much better and feels more erotic than those quick table shags. Those are fine too, of course, but you know what i mean. When your man can breath, he performs better. Breathing controls blood flow, and blood flow controls the body organs.

So anyways, that’s not everything I had to say. We went on a vacation, Louis, me, and another couple of good friends. We rented two jeeps and went up the mountains, above the clouds. Well it wasn’t too high, but the air was thinner. And of course, Louis (and me, of course, he says this was my responsibility!) – we forgot the Viagra pack back home.

It was only a long weekend in a remote vacation village. They had yoga and meditation classes, they had a swimming pool (small but great), they had spa and body treatments. Louis said the only thing they didn’t have was good food, but I disagree. it was vegeterian, true, but it was indeed tasty. But Louis is the big chef so I kept my mouth shut. Sometimes your man needs to feel important, like he knows better. That’s fine with me. I don’t let it confuse me. I’m a true lady by now :)

My libido was there alright, vacation does me good I guess. Louis was slightly nervous at the beginning, yoga and breathing are not his natural grounds. But he kept his mind open, his lungs as well, and after I told him this might be the alternative to the pills left home, he was very motivated.

At night, it proved right. We had a fantastic (although pretty short) sex without the need of the pill. There is life after Viagra, and although once we came back we returned to our old habbits (a pill a day) – we were both very pleased being able to get it on without it.

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Why is Pfizer making men’s life so hard..?

by admin on Apr.10, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

It was on the news recently, Pfizer is suing the largest generic drugs company Teva for planning to  market its own version of generic Viagra. Now, of course that business-wise this is understood. But why should we understand such an act, really? Pfizer was our angel, our savor, our ray of light in the darkest day, when it came out with Viagra. For years it was the only ED drug on the market. For years there were no legal generic Viagra pills. But hey, drugs are supposed to keep the man that suffers above all, no?

I know it sounds naive, but isn’t it super-disgusting from a company that already made billions from men that couldn’t have sex because of dis-functioning blood stream (direct or indirect), to just want to have the whole cake to itself? What about those who cannot have sex AND also don’t have the money to buy Viagra by Pfizer? It is much more expensive (sometimes 5 times more expensive!) than the generic drug.

Shouldn’t sex be a basic right? Why is Pfizer trying to fuck with  the wrong men?

My guess, Pfizer will lose against Teva. If not now, then in 3, 5, 7 years. By then the market will be full with other drugs and their generic versions (Cialis, Levitra, etc). Not to mention, new solutions that might come up. Or wait..Pfizer maybe knows something..perhaps there is already a new thing coming up, a new drug for the impotents, so Pfizer knows Viagra days are soon to be over!

Until this day will come, Louis and myself will continue to enjoy our generic Viagra. It does the same job, and it’s cheaper. Drugs are, after all, only chemistry.

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How can we trust Viagra?

by admin on Apr.06, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

trust viagraIt seems that healthy blood circulation is the key for good life. And since impotence pills (ED pills) are improving blood circulation, they have some useful side effects. I have already mentioned in my last post that Viagra might help women get pregnant (and now that I think about it, i need to send the link to a friend of mine!). I read other things too, how Viagra helps against Jet Lag, and now I read that Cialis (or other ED pills, such as Viagra and Levitra) can help people with muscle dystrophy.

It really got me thinking, should people with no impotence problems should really use impotence pills to fix other problems they might have? After all, those ED pills still have some bad side effects of their own, and what if using them will fix one problem – but will cause a new one?

How can you trust Viagra? Or, for that matter, any medicament? How can you trust science?

I don’t have the answers, I’m just a young worried Viagra Wife…I’m writing here to raise those questions, not to answer them. For me, the answer is common sense. When I feel (or when my husband feels) it’s better not to use the pill for a week, we take a break. I must say it only happened once, after more than a year we’ve been using the pill. Louis never had any bad side effect happening to him. For us, Viagra (and also Cialis, he used it for some time) is a perfectly safe medicament.

But still, it’s a medicament.

I just thought we all should keep that in mind.

Love,

Ella.

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How dangerous is impotence?

by admin on Mar.18, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

Louis has been using Viagra for almost two years now, and we’re doing fine. Sexually we get    along and the Viagra made sure things are functioning good.

So what is my problem?

Well I read this article the other day, it said something about the connection between impotence and heart attacks.  My friends think I’m hysterical, but I live in fear, a fear of losing my husband. Is impotence just a symptom of a much worse illness? Is there anything we can do about it?

And perhaps – just perhaps – using Viagra actually putting my husband in greater risk? (this is based on the Chinese medicine theory, that if you stop the symptoms the illness will find another, fiercer, way out). I looked online for hours but couldn’t find anything on the subject. There are many older articles, or simply too many words with no answer.

I told Louis what I read. I didn’t want to put him in any pressure but he was glad to talk about it. I think he thought of it before, maybe read something too. He said he wants to quit his job (restaurant chef) and that it is way too stressing for him now to work in a restaurant’s kitchen. I was very happy he told me that, I think his work has  a big influence on his moods, his lifestyle and our intimate lives. Yes, maybe too much stress is the reason for his impotence.

Another thing I told him I want him to try was various Viagra alternatives. Sport, food, foreplay. Whatever it takes. Louis will leave the restaurant once they find a new chef to replace him. I can’t wait!

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Chronicles of a Viagra Wife (Do I need Lovegra?)

by admin on Mar.12, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

I’m older now. Not wiser, just older. Louis took me to a secret restaurant and we celebrated this with too much wine. Older and still can’t drink.

The restaurant was very special, indeed secret, in a big hall we sat, about 200 people, an ate from a menu we never got. You eat what they cook, you don’t choose a thing. Only the wine, red or white. We had a bottle of the red.

It’s a very different experience, to eat exactly the same, we never did it before. You feel connected, the same materials go into both of our bodies, we share the same experience. Sometimes i wonder about it when we have sex.

Do we share the same feelings in bed? Louis, the man that’s on Viagra, and me, a young woman after giving birth?

We both enjoy, but in different ways. It’s like he’s turned on before we even start, and for me it takes longer. It’s the pill, but it’s also the fact that he’s a man and I’m a woman. For us in must come from the inside. Louis told me that there are also pills for women, Lovegra, but i think I’m still young and I don’t really need it. It’s hormones, and it’s the way women are built. With some attention and a good share of oral sex, I don’t need Lovegra. I just need more time.

I’m getting older, though. It will come.

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Is Viagra Dangerous?

by admin on Mar.10, 2010, under My Viagra Experience

My mom asked me if everything was OK. I had a coffee at their place, my sister was there too. She’s older than me and she doesn’t have a boyfriend for a long time now, so she hates me and she hates Louis. Specially Louis. ‘Yes, all is cool. Why would you ask?’, I knew why, but I really didn’t feel like talking about it.

A few weeks back I went to the mall with my sister and told her Louis was using impotence pills (back then he was still on the daily Cialis, which by now he neglected to go back to the old little blue pill). I don’t remember why exactly, but I told her about my short affair with my gay friend and somehow I told her about Louis little problem too. It seemed connected, me having an affair while my husband can’t get it on, but it’s not. I know it now, because I no longer have the affair nor want to have any, and Louis still can’t get it on..

So later, my sister told my mom. I imagine how she did it, probably was something like: ‘I don’t have any problem having any guy I want, mom, I a single and I’m fucking happy, bitch, and for your information it’s your teenage married daughter who is having some problems in her love life, so why won’t you fuck off and find your other daughter-in-need’.  Yeah, my sister is half tourette, not officially but in a very practical, annoying way.

So what my mom really wanted to know was gossip. Maybe my dad needed it too and she was too shy to ask. I hope not, and if he is I can send him to speak to Louis’ father…Men! Later she called me on the phone and was very direct. She heard Louis was using “the pill” and she wanted to make sure it wasn’t dangerous.

So, is it?

I told her Viagra was like any other medicament, it has instructions and you must follow them. Louis is still relatively young so he doesn’t take any other medications, which makes it easier (no contradictions between pills), and he never takes more than a pill a day.

Great, my mom was relaxed now. I think she only wanted to talk to me about it, no way she really thought Viagra is dangerous. I mean, why should she? It’s a, well, very respected drug. After that she started to talk to me about my sister. What will be the end with her?

I don’t know, like all of us I guess, finding a boy she likes, then he gets older and takes Viagra, that’s it.

Mom was laughing.

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